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A Few of the Most Popular Bar/Bat Mitzvah Themes

In our almost two decades of providing entertainment for mitzvah families at their event, we’ve seen a wide variety of themes, but a few stick out as what have been the most popular over the years and the most widely used.

Deciding your child’s mitzvah theme is an important part of the planning process. Not only is it a way for them to express themselves and feel that their party is fully customized to their interests, it’s also the first thing your guests will see when they walk through the door and what you can plan the rest of the night around! In our almost two decades of providing entertainment for mitzvah families at their event, we’ve seen a wide variety of bar/bat mitzvah theme ideas, but a few stick out as what have been the most popular over the years and the most widely used. 

Here are just a few of the best bar/bat mitzvah themes we’ve seen: 

1. Sports

Sports is maybe one of the most popular themes we see, especially for bar mitzvahs. While you may think it could be overplayed, it’s the level of customization you can have with it and the variety of sports and teams, that allows it to be unique for each event! With this theme, we’ve seen everything from team centerpieces to jerseys for the guests and entertainers to dancefloors decorated to look like football fields, hockey arenas used as venues, and much more! This theme can easily influence other aspects of your event, like invitations, party favors, food, props, and decorations throughout the party. It also gives you a great reason to bring in “arcade” type games like air hockey or foosball, which not only goes along with the theme but provides more entertainment for the kids! 

2. Color 

Everyone has a favorite color and what better way to showcase that than at your mitzvah! This theme may seem simple, and while it can be, it can still be just as fun as the others! Having a simpler theme may mean the more you’re able to do with it. For instance you can easily incorporate it into almost any aspect of the party. Invites, party favors, outfits, logo design, and party decorations. 

3. Name/Word Play 

This theme really allows you to get creative and personalize the event to the guest of honor. The theme is typically a common phrase but is given a special touch with your child’s first name, last name, or initals. Below are just a few of our favorites and some of the most clever ones we’ve seen! 

The best part of planning your child’s mitzvah and choosing a theme is that there are no rules and no limits to what you can do! If they can’t decide on just one theme and want a mixture of a few, go for it! If they decide on just one idea, really focus on it and make it the best it can be.

Just because these three themes are some of the most popular does not mean they are the only ones you can choose from. Ask your child what they’d like and go from there. After all, this day is truly about them, and what better way to celebrate than to include all of their favorite things. If you ever need any help with bar/bat mitzvah theme ideas or on how to begin, we’d be happy to talk it over with you. Our team has a lot of experience that we’d love to share!

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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The Importance of Music at a Bar/Bat Mitzvah

Music is an important part of mitzvahs and as a mitzvah entertainment service, we understand that importance. It is a way to transition through different moments throughout the night, to create and carry high energy all night long, and to get everyone involved whether they’re the youngest or oldest in the room!

Music is an important part of mitzvahs and as a mitzvah entertainment service, we understand that importance. It is a way to transition through different moments throughout the night, to create and carry high energy all night long, and to get everyone involved whether they’re the youngest or oldest in the room! 

As professional and experienced mitzvah DJs and entertainers, we fully understand the art and science of getting people on the dance floor. Our team constantly reads the room, reacts, and adjusts our approach to always maximize engagement on the dance floor. Of course, our DJs will play the most popular party songs guaranteed to create energy, however, it is also important to incorporate your personal style of music into the event. 

Nothing is worse than going to a party or an event, and the music does not resemble the feeling or the people in the room. On top of that, we know a lot of mitzvah families’ main concern is making sure everyone will enjoy the music. And it doesn’t take “Baby Shark” or “My Girl” by The Temptations to get the young and old up on the dance floor. You’d be surprised how many people, no matter what their age, like “Uptown Funk” by Bruno Mars. It’s all about finding those songs everyone will enjoy, without sacrificing the energy already in the room, and that’s what we’re here for! 

We realize everyone has their own preferences and our experts at Xtreme Event Group would be happy to discuss your vision and provide suggestions based on that. We greatly encourage you to provide our team with song requests across the following categories to clearly identify your preferences and your vision for your party:

  • Must Play (up to 5 songs)

  • Play If Possible

  • Do Not Play

This allows our DJs to easily manage and craft the perfect mix of music to cater to everyone, making sure that each aspect of your event - including your music - is a perfect fit for you and your guests. 

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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The Best Buffet Options For Your Child's Bar/Bat Mitzvah

We see every aspect of a mitzvah as an opportunity to express your child’s personality and interests, and we don’t think food should be an exception! When it comes to food, you want to make sure you can offer something everyone will like, but most importantly, something your child will love!

We see every aspect of a mitzvah as an opportunity to express your child’s personality and interests, and we don’t think food should be an exception! When it comes to food, you want to make sure you can offer something everyone will like, but most importantly, something your child will love! 

With buffets, you can offer a variety of food that’ll be sure to have something for everyone, while also focusing on some of your child’s favorite foods and getting creative with the different flavors that are offered! Here are just a few of our favorite buffets we’ve had in the past and ones we think you should consider for their future mitzvah!

Appetizer:

  • Sushi

  • Charcuterie (Cheese Boards)

Dinner:

  • Pizza 

  • Sandwiches / Subs

  • (MORE!) Sushi 

  • Pasta

Dessert:

  • (Make Your Own) Ice Cream

  • Donuts

  • Cookies

  • Candy

  • Milk Shakes / Smoothies

If you put as much thought into planning the food options as you do with everything else at your child’s mitzvah, you and your guests will be able to enjoy every aspect of the event, and make that just as memorable as many of the other moments of the night!

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

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The 5 Things You Should Ask Any Vendor or Venue

We believe keeping these five things in mind during the search process, will prioritize your needs, your budget, your child’s interests, and the vision you have for their mitzvah, and make finding the perfect fit easier than before!

When contacted by future mitzvah families, we do our best to make the process easy and make sure to personalize the event to fit their needs and their child’s interests! Below are a few of the things that we are always happy to go over when chatting with our families, and five of the most important topics we believe you should go over when talking to any vendor or venue!

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1. Value

As we’ve suggested in the past, we believe it is important to create a budget that you can stick to. To make that easier, it is best to allot a certain amount to each aspect of the planning process and your event needs. While we do suggest creating a strict budget, we realize that’s easier said than done. Sometimes it helps to be flexible especially when you consider the value of what you are getting. When choosing a venue or vendor, you may find options that fit within your set budget but they don’t offer exactly what you’re looking for or match the quality you envisioned. It’s important to look at a variety of venues and vendors to see what they offer and which will give you the best value for what you pay and what you need.

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2. Availability 

Nothing is worse than finding the perfect venue and then realizing they’re all booked up! If you know your preferred date, make sure to ask about that before getting into too many details. Most likely if venues or vendors are not available on that date, they will have other options available for you, and at that point, it’s up to you if you’re able to be flexible and switch that date around! Make sure to keep in mind when your family would be available, if you had any trips planned or previous plans made, or if there is anything that would conflict with the other options available.

3. Flexibility 

Speaking of flexibility, typically venues and vendors offer multiple packages to accommodate a wide range of needs and preferences. See what packages they offer based on your budget, needs, and your child’s preferences. If they don’t already offer packages that fit this, see if they are able to be flexible to help create the perfect party for you!

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4. Reviews

With company reviews being so easy to find nowadays, there should be no reason you don’t look at them before booking with someone! Whether it’s on Facebook, Google, or their direct website, being able to get a good understanding of how their customers felt before, during, and after working with them, should be easy and so important before saying yes to using them for your son or daughter’s mitzvah! Looking at reviews can put your mind at ease if you had any doubts before or can save you from an unpleasant experience if you notice previous customers have had many in the past.

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5. Previous Work 

Similar to finding reviews, a vendor’s previous work is typically very easy to find and is a great way to see what they’ve done in the past and if it fits the vision you have for your event! Most companies know the importance of this and will showcase their work on their website or social media pages. When looking, be sure to take your time and look through more than just a few examples, as that may not showcase all that they can do! Although these vendors may be able to be flexible and offer you more than what they show, looking at their social media beforehand is a great way to get a general idea of what they’ve done and what they are used to doing. If you cannot find any previous work, make sure to ask them when having your initial meeting and before signing with them.

We believe keeping these five things in mind during the search process, will prioritize your needs, your child’s interests, and the vision you have for their mitzvah, and make finding the perfect fit easier than before!

 
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Mitzvah Games (That Are Actually Fun!) - Cocktail Hour

We believe that cocktail hour is a great opportunity for our team to not only get to know our guests but to also allow them to get to know each other through games. Here are a few of our favorite cocktail games, that we think do this best!

At a bar/bat mitzvah, the party may seem like the best part of the night. And don’t get us wrong, as a mitzvah entertainment company, we love the dancing, dinner, and party games, but cocktail hour is where family and friends come together, get to know each other, and that's truly where the fun begins. 

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Not everyone at a bar/bat mitzvah may know each other and that’s okay! That is what we’re there for! We believe that cocktail hour is a great opportunity for our team to not only get to know our guests but to also allow them to get to know each other through games. Below are a few of our favorite cocktail games, that we think do this best!

1. Poster Drop 

You may be able to guess what you have to do in this game, just from the name itself! In poster drop, a member of our team holds a rolled-up poster in both hands and as they drop it, the kids try to catch the poster before it touches the ground. It may sound easy but it’s harder than it looks and is a great way to get the kids laughing, active, and ready for what’s in store for the rest of the night! This is a favorite of ours to start the night with, because it allows our team to go from group to group, engaging with our guests one at a time, getting to know each of them a bit better. 

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2. Human Knot

Once a popular Tik Tok, this game involves teamwork, communication, and is guaranteed to create laughter and a few silly moments along the way. The rules are simple, a rope is tied and interlocked to you and your partner’s hands, untangle yourselves without removing your hands from the rope. We believe this game is best when played with someone that the kids may not know so that they can bond through working together and carry that with them through the rest of the night! 

3. Levitation

This one may sound a little silly, but trust us, it’s one of our favorites for that reason! Everyone playing sits in a chair, turns to their side, and leans back onto the person next to them. As they are doing this, our team goes around and starts removing chairs until there are none left and the kids are all “levitating”. It’s a fun one to play but it may be even more fun to watch, as eventually one of the kids falls after their chair is removed, creating a domino effect that has everyone falling over and begging to try again! 

4. Trivia 

This interactive trivia game is a great way to get everyone involved and let the kids use their phones one last time before the party starts, getting it out of their system! With so many kids, trivia is still easy to manage through Kahoot, a site that allows us to ask questions about the guest of honor, have all the kids answer at once, and display the correct answer on the big screen for everyone to see. Trivia is a fun way to find out “who knows the guest of honor best”, allowing the kids to compete and get back to the focus of the night - the guest of honor!   

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At Xtreme Event Group, we believe having a fun and engaging cocktail hour where everyone can get involved is so important if you want to start the night off right! And as we’ve shown here, a great way to do that is through playing bar/bat mitzvah games. 

If you’d like to learn more about the games, bar mitzvah activities, and other entertainment that we can offer at your child’s event, schedule a call with one of our experts today!

 
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Mitzvah Games (That Are Actually Fun!)

As a bat/bar mitzvah entertainment company that loves engaging with our guests through games, here are some of our favorites to play during the party!

A good mitzvah entertainment company should be able to take your vision and bring it to life, as well as, understand the interests, hobbies, and passions of the guest of honor. And with saying that, we realize not every guest of honor may want to dance the night away at their mitzvah. So as an alternative, a great way to drive engagement between kids and adults would be incorporating games into your event, that can still be fun, high-energy, interactive, and cohesive for all of your guests. As a bat/bar mitzvah entertainment company that loves engaging with our guests through games, here are some of our favorites to play during the party! 

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1. Coke and Pepsi 

This game may be simple, but that doesn’t mean it’s not fun! In fact, it is still the most popular mitzvah game there is! The guests playing will be split into two different sides, “coke” and “pepsi”. When your side is called, you run as fast as you can to your partner on the other side. The last person to their partner is out! We try to incorporate the guest of honor’s passions, interests, hobbies, and chosen bar/bat mitzvah themes into the game as well, to make it more meaningful and personal to your child’s mitzvah. 

Photo Credit: Photography by Jen Davis

2. Twenty One

A relay race with a twist! The object of the game is to stack cups with your team until they form a pyramid of 21 total cups. The first team to do that wins! While that may sound easy, it’s probably not as easy as you think! Each person can only stack one cup at a time and as they run to their teammate, the cups have a tendency to fall over, leaving your team to now fix the cups one at a time. While we typically start Twenty One with just the kids, we like to have the adults play against the winning team. This is a great way to get the adults involved, and it’s always entertaining to see how competitive they get during the game!

3. Scavenger Hunt

This game is set up similarly to musical chairs, and who doesn’t love musical chairs?? The main difference being, rather than circling around the chairs and finding one once the music stops, you must find an item called out and run back to find a chair before they are all taken! The quicker you find the item, the quicker you get to a chair, the better chance you have of staying in the game! With Scavenger Hunt, we make sure to involve both the kids and adults in unique ways so that everyone gets a chance to play. 

Lucky for you, these are all games that we offer, as well as many others! When thinking about games for your child’s event, the best mitzvah company or bar/bat mitzvah DJ will typically have this covered! But it doesn’t hurt to know what to expect at a bar mitzvah party and to look over these bat mitzvah games and activities with your child to see which they would prefer! While we did name our top three party games, we know each child is different and we make sure to pick what games we feel will best suit them and the rest of the party guests to create the BEST. PARTY. EVER. Be sure to check out our blog next week, where we list our favorite mitzvah games during cocktail hour!

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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The 5 Biggest Regrets From Mitzvah Families After Their Event

A tool we think you need to make sure that you are nothing other than happy once your son or daughter’s mitzvah is over.

After years of looking forward to it and after months and months of planning it, the day has come and gone and how do you feel? Probably a little tired from dancing, a little relieved that there is no more planning, a little sad that it’s over, but hopefully satisfied with how everything turned out. We hope after all of the time and effort you’ve put in, your child’s mitzvah is as special as you as always hoped it would be. However, we know that not everything always goes as planned and there may be some things you wish you had known earlier to prepare for or things you could have done to prevent those last-minute surprises. So with that, we want to give you 5 of the biggest regrets mitzvah parents feel that they’ve made when planning their event - a tool we think you need to make sure that you are nothing other than happy once your son or daughter’s mitzvah is over. 

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1. Not Hiring Help 

Although there are 4 other things on this list, hiring help may be one of the most important. If you’ve ever planned an event, which we’re sure you have, you know how overwhelming it can sometimes be. While you may feel inclined to do all the work yourself knowing how special this day should be, relying on people who plan mitzvahs for a living, will help you truly make it as special as it can be, with less stress to you and with probably more resources than you could have provided. Hiring help will take more off your plate, knowing the day is in expert hands, and truly allow you to enjoy it when it comes!

2. Not Sticking To A Budget 

Creating a budget and sticking to one are two different things. While the first is good, the second is even better. The trick is to create a detailed bar/bat mitzvah budget early so that you know how much to put aside for each aspect of planning and if something were to come up later on in the process, you know where you can take from if need be. This works best when you coincide your budget with a projected timeline. And although it is good to stick by your budget, it is also good to know what items you can and can’t be flexible with when it comes to how much to spend or whether or not it’s worth it when receiving an estimate.

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3. Involving Your Child Too Late In The Process 

When planning a bar/bat mitzvah there is a lot to keep in mind and sometimes it can distract from what the event is all about - your child. At the end of the day, a mitzvah is held to celebrate your son or daughter. This means it is important to ask them what their expectations are for the day and what things they would really like to be included. It is important to note that this should be done early so that you can account for their preferences when creating a timeline and setting a budget, as well as involve them with any part of the planning process that you feel necessary. Be sure to still stick to your budget and if that means not involving everything they’ve requested, ask them for their favorites so that you know what to exclude if needed.

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4. Not Telling Your Vendor & Planner What’s Most Important To You Early In The Process 

When hiring bar mitzvah vendors or bat mitzvah planners, it is important that through the hiring process you feel that they are a good fit and that they understand your vision for the event. Because of this, make sure that you feel comfortable with who you hire and that in your first meeting or in the ones soon to come, you tell them the things that are crucial in what should be involved. This way they know exactly what to include to make the day what you hope it will be!

5. Not Enjoying The Moment 

Other than hiring help, enjoying the moment is by far the best advice we can give! After all of the work you’ve put into planning, you deserve to enjoy the day you helped put together! But even more importantly, this day is about your child, your family, and what it means to your community. It is a special day for all and you should let the planner part of you step aside, and enjoy the moments you’re creating!

Although mitzvah parents have made these mistakes in the past, we hope with these tips, you won’t have to! While there are many aspects to planning a mitzvah, these are some of the biggest and some of the best to get you started! Good luck and let us know if you need any help creating the best bar/bat mitzvah along the way!

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If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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The Importance of An Event Entertainment Team

Learn about the importance of having an event entertainment team for your mitzvah, directly from our team!

Planning a mitzvah can truly take a village. As we’ve discussed in previous blog posts, there a lot of things to consider - from something as small as your logo to larger aspects like picking a venue. What you and your guests will truly remember about your event, though, is how it all came together and made you feel.

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Here at Xtreme Event Group, we’ve built a team of dedicated and talented entertainment professionals, all of whom know how to do their part to bring you a remarkable experience. When you think of event entertainment, you likely think about a DJ - and while DJs are certainly important to the event experience, there are several other roles that make our team what it is. At any given event, an entertainment team could be comprised of:

  • Emcees

  • DJs

  • Motivators

  • Technicians

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Rather than tell you what each person does, we want you to hear directly from our some of our Xtreme team members about how each person brings their A-game to contribute to the BEST. PARTY. EVER.

Adam, Emcee:

“As the MC we set the tone for our events by having great energy and personality. We lead the way to everyone having an awesome time celebrating together.”

Lauren, Motivator:

“Helping to create the best party ever really starts with the team I’m working with. We are so lucky here at Xtreme Event Group; truly everyone I get to work with is an amazing energy to be around. As a Party Motivator, my job is to make sure everyone in the room is involved and having a great time, and I think part of the reason we are able to do that so successfully is because we are actually having fun! Through the years I have made some amazing friendships and I think the clients can feel the loving and open energy we have with each other - and that helps them let their hair down and party with us.”

Alyssa spoke of the importance of connecting with the guests of honor.

Alyssa, Motivator:

“My role as a Party Motivator creates the best party ever by leaving a lasting impression on the kids and personally making sure every single child has a good time. I love connecting with the kids and making amazing memories that will stick with them forever!”

There are also aspects of event preparation that begin way before the event. For instance, Gregory stressed that to perform his best for clients, he makes sure to take care of himself.

Gregory, DJ:

“My role in creating the best party ever includes a few steps - the right communication with the team, being prepared with the duties that suit my role, eating properly/getting the right sleep days before the event and lastly understanding why I took the role will determine the ‘best party ever!’”

Zach talked further about how the role of a DJ can impact a mitzvah.

Zach, DJ:

“Being able to balance song selection for many age demographics is important if every guest is going to walk out of the party impressed.  To quote Celeda and Danny Tenaglia, ‘Music is the answer/ To your problems/ Keep on moving/ Then you can solve them.’  So without music, there isn’t a best party ever!”

From behind the scenes, Maggie shared how crucial her role is regarding team communication and executing a client’s vision.

Maggie, Client Care Manager:

“Although I am not at the events, I’m behind the scenes working closely with our clients to determine everything they want to do for their big day and painting the picture to meet their expectations. I’d say my role helps to create the best party ever because I work closely with each client to understand their expectations and gather all needed items to execute them perfectly. The information I gather is passed to the entire team so they have a clear picture of what has to happen.”

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Finally, Nicole summed up the purpose of an event team, short and sweet:

Nicole, Motivator:

“We have unity in diversity. We are all different, but we come together for the same goal - make it the best party ever!”

You might not remember what, exactly, was said throughout the night, but you will remember the exhilaration of dancing to your favorite song with the people you’re most fond of by your side. After all, that’s what makes the BEST. PARTY. EVER.

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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Your Perfect Bar Mitzvah Playlist: Ultimate Throwback songs

A curated list of perfect throwback songs that guests of all ages at your mitzvah will enjoy!

Since bar and bat mitzvahs typically hosts guests of all ages, a good DJ knows how to cater to their audience, whether guests are comprised of thirteen-year-olds, seventy-year-olds, or anyone in between.

While the guest of honor will likely have a large say in what music is played, we also want to make sure everyone from the youngest to the oldest has something that caters to them.

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Photo credits: Bart Gorin Photography

That being said, here is our list of the BEST throwback music for your event - music that will make guests of all ages get out of their seats and sing out loud. Ironically, many of these hits have become popular again on TikTok.

1. Don't Stop Believin’ - Journey (1981)

2. Anything by ABBA, especially Dancing Queen (1976) and Mamma Mia (1975)

3. Bohemian Rhapsody- Queen (1975)

4. Sweet Caroline - Neil Diamond (1969)

5. You Shook Me All Night Long - AC/DC (1980)

6. I Want You Back - The Jackson 5 (1969)

7. Come On Eileen - Dexys Midnight Runners (1982)

And we couldn’t forget classic songs by our favorite New Jersey natives:

8. I Wanna Dance with Somebody (Who Loves Me) - Whitney Houston (1987)

9. Livin’ On A Prayer - Bon Jovi (1986)

10. Dancing in the Dark - Bruce Springsteen (1975)


These songs are guaranteed to please everyone at your mitzvah, no matter how old!

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Our experts at Xtreme Event Group can discuss your ideas and provide suggestions while going through your event details, making sure that each aspect of your event - including your playlist - is a perfect fit for you and your child.

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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Your Perfect Bar Mitzvah Playlist: Songs for Your Honor Dance

A curated list of perfect songs for your bar or bat mitzvah’s honor dance.

A mitzvah celebration is full of ceremonies and traditions. These traditions can include a candle lighting ceremony, hora, and even an honor dance.

The honor dance - also commonly referred to as a parent-child dance - is a special moment that demonstrates the connection and bond between the guest of honor and their parent.

Much like at a wedding, the bar mitzvah child will traditionally dance with his mother while the bat mitzvah child will traditionally dance with her father. If a parent isn’t present, the guest of honor might choose to dance with a sibling, grandparent, step-parent, aunt, uncle, or any other family member that is important to them.

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For those families that choose to partake in this custom, it’s important to find a song that the guest of honor and their family member can comfortably dance to and signifies their relationship.

Honor dance songs are typically clean, happy songs that describe familial or parental love. While these types of songs seem difficult to find, we’ve compiled a list of popular songs that could be fitting for your and your child’s dance, including old favorites and new hits:

1. Photograph - Ed Sheeran

“You won’t ever be alone, wait for me to come home.”

2. What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong

“I hear babies cry, I watch them grow. They’ll learn much more, than I’ll ever know.”

3. Never Grow Up - Taylor Swift

”I won’t let nobody hurt you, won’t let no one break your heart.”

4. Daughters - John Mayer

“Fathers be good to your daughters, daughters will love like you do.”

5. Isn’t She Lovely - Stevie Wonder

”Isn’t she lovely, isn’t she wonderful?”

6. My Girl - The Temptations

“I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day with my girl.”

7. God Only Knows - John Legend

“God only knows what I’d be without you.”

8. My Wish - Rascal Flatts

“My wish for you is that this life becomes all that you want it to.”

9. Simple Man - Lynyrd Skynrd

“Mama told me when I was young, come sit beside me my only son.”

10. Father and Daughter - Paul Simon

“I’m gonna watch you shine, gonna watch you grow.”

Photo Credit: Photography by Jen Davis

When choosing a song, it’s most important to pick something that you and your child enjoy, even if it might not be seen as “traditional” or “typical.” If your event’s theme, for example, is Broadway, then you could tailor your song even more and choose a song from a musical, like “No Matter What” from the Broadway version of Beauty and the Beast.

While many song choices, such as the ones listed above, are sentimental, you can choose any song that has meaning to you. If the guest of honor is a dancer, you could even consider choreographing a dance routine to perform for your guests.

Our experts at Xtreme Event Group can discuss your ideas and provide suggestions while going through your event details, making sure that each aspect of your event - including your honor dance - is a perfect fit for you and your child.

Choreographing your own moves can make for a fun and unique twist on an honor dance.

If you’re looking to plan your child’s bar or bat mitzvah, Xtreme Event Group will take care of all your event entertainment needs. Schedule a consultation with one of our mitzvah planning experts today.

 
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